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The Momba Brief is Carmen “The Momba” Gulliksen’s personal safety newsletter: one readiness move and a field note you can use the same day, in about two minutes.

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September 15, 2026 · The Momba Brief

Nothing about your routine changed. The light did.

The readiness move

You leave the office at six the way you have all year. You run the same loop after work. You do the grocery run on the way home, park in the same spot, walk the same forty yards to the door.

In August all of that happened in daylight. By the middle of October, none of it does.

Richmond loses about ninety minutes of afternoon light between now and Halloween, and it goes gradually enough that almost nobody adjusts anything. Your routine is identical. Your conditions are not.

Here's what I see every year at this point in the season: people don't stop doing the things they were doing. They just start doing them a little more tensely. You walk to the car a bit faster. You keep your keys out. You cut the second loop. Nobody decides any of that — it just starts happening, and it costs you something you never agreed to pay.

Your routine didn't change. Your conditions did — and your body has been paying the difference.

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Each issue takes one ordinary situation — parking, walking into a room, getting into a car — and the decision that changes how it goes. Your first issue is free: pick any of these.

In transit

Getting into a car you don't control

A record nobody knows about protects nobody.

August 15, 2026

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Reading the room

Four seconds when you walk in

You can't invent an exit in the moment. You can only recall one.

August 1, 2026

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Before you arrive

The decision you make before you park

Park for the return, not the arrival.

July 15, 2026

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Reading the room

The step nobody notices you taking

You are not required to win an argument in order to have room to stand.

July 1, 2026

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Under pressure

The ninety seconds nobody trains

Freezing and tonic immobility are not the same thing.

June 15, 2026

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How each issue works.

Most safety advice is a list of things to worry about. The Brief is the opposite: one decision you can make differently, starting today.

The situation

An ordinary moment

Where you park. The first four seconds in a room. Getting into a car you don’t control. The places you already go, not worst-case scenarios.

The readiness move

One decision that changes it

The small choice made before anything happens — the one that decides how the rest of the moment goes, explained plainly enough to use the same day.

The field note

Something to try this week

A practical note to take out of the email and into your routine, grounded in how people actually respond under stress.

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Who writes it?

Carmen “The Momba” Gulliksen: an active professional boxer, a martial arts instructor for more than 30 years and a health researcher whose postgraduate work focused on PTSD. She teaches women’s safety at the Richmond VA Medical Center and runs the Momba personal safety programs.

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Who is it for?

Women, families and anyone who moves through ordinary places on their own sometimes — parking lots, new rooms, rideshares, the walk to the car — and wants to feel steadier doing it.

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